Frospiration! | Claudia


Let’s get to know you.

Hello peeps! My name is Claudia .K. Giglio. I’m Italian/Burkinabe and Nigerien(Niger).

So where I live is a bit tricky. For the past 4 years I've been based in Shanghai, but I work mostly in Africa. I work in the development/humanitarian sector for NGOs doing short missions. When I get selected for a mission, it's usually in Africa which makes me visit a different country for each mission. Currently, I'm in Dakar, Senegal.

How long have you been a natural?

I've been natural for most of my life. I had 2 relaxers episodes in between that never lasted more than a year. Last time I had a relaxer was in 2006 - if I remember correctly.

Big chop or transition?

A year after my last relaxer, my hair went from shoulder length to a barely existing rat-tail in the space of 8 months...so I just chopped it.

What’s the story behind you going back to your natural roots?

The real reason behind my chop was mainly motivated by 3 factors:
First, my hair was obviously damaged and I couldn't keep on going out, walking down the street and trying to look all cute when my hair was just a mess.

Second factor was financial. I was a student, living in Paris and was always short on cash to not say completely broke but will always find a way to get some money to mess up my hair even more. At a point, it wasn't just viable anymore. The economical factor led me to the third one, which was more of a question. Why me, a mixed African girl, had to go through all these processes to have "socially decent" hair. Why do I have to spend so much money - that I don't even have to take care of it? Isn't there a way for me to just be me with my "normal" hair?

The more I thought about these questions, the more I got angry and uncomfortable because I had no answers. Then I called my hairdresser to make an appointment that same day.
When I got there, she asked what I wanted and I told her to chop it off. She stared at me, asking if I was sure. Of course I wasn't sure! But I couldn't go on with this bun brush of a hair. I couldn't even look at the mirror during the whole time it was chopped.

I left the salon after a deep conditioning treatment and a bandana tied up. At this point I still hadn't looked at myself until the next morning. I finally saw my short, short, short hair and cried my eyes out. I didn't get out of my studio for the next 3 days. Finally had to go out cause I ran out of food, lol. So I did my hair - dressed well and wore some make up(I usually never do but I thought it would distract people from looking at my hair).

I must say that I never received as much compliments from people the way I did that day. It really help to boost my self confidence and gave me a feeling of being beautiful despite any length of hair I have on.

Do you have an idea what your hair type and porosity is?

Nope. I tried at the beginning but then realised that it wasn't possible. I'm mixed. I have different hair types all over my hair, the back is different from the sides, which are different from the crown and the front is another type again.😳

The thing is, I have thick hair with fine strands. Low porosity with tight S pattern that tangles easily especially near the scalp and still quite easy to manage.

What’s your regimen like?

I travel a lot because of my work, sometimes I end up in places where water and products are scarce and not easy to find. My regimen will mostly depend on the availability of water, so it fluctuates during my missions. I would try to still deep condition once a week and wash my hair every 3 weeks with a mix of Apple cider vinegar and baking soda.

On "normal" settings, I would co-wash and deep condition my hair once a week and wash it thoroughly every 2 weeks.

Any hair products you can’t do without?

Deep conditioner with a lot of slip.

What’s your go-to hairstyle? Any fave hairstyle?

I keep it simple. I usually have a wash and go that rarely lives freely out as I tie it up often.

Challenges you face as a natural.

My main challenge is finding products due to work. Sometimes I'm stationed in places where adapted hair products aren't available. It means carrying enough products to make sure they can last for a few months.
Also, it happens that I might be in places where water is scarce or there are some water cuts. These conditions have made me reflect on solutions to waste less water like using a spray bottle whenever possible to get my hair soaked, always turn off the water when applying products to my hair, doing some hairstyles more often etc.

Do you have any hair/styling secret? 😉

Do you know that applying your styling products on soaked hair, helps with definition and long-lasting curls? Well, now you do!

And pay attention to what you eat. Whatever you put inside your body will reflect outside. Take care of your insides and your body will reflect the love you're giving to yourself.

Has going natural changed anything about you?

As I did not get a lot of relaxers, let's say that I'm less stressed in terms of money and the healthiness of my hair. I acquired a lot of knowledge about hair in general and curly hair more specifically. Focusing on the healthiness of my hair has obliged me to take care of my whole self as well.

Do you think you'll ever return to the creamy crack?

Nope!


Any advice for your natural sisters out there?

It's a process. Indulge in the uneasiness of the journey and accept the mistakes, because it will deepen the knowledge on yourself. The more you fight it, the more you struggle. Nothing gets perfectly done the first time nor the second or third. Bear with it and give yourself much love!

How do we keep in touch with you? 

Instagram: @claudia.k.giglio

How to Moisturize Hair Properly(When Not Protective Styling)


Imagine this scenario: Take some amount of leave in conditioner, rub it all over hair, then seal with oil.

And that's all for moisturizing? Really?

Getting as much moisture as possible is really important for the well being of our hair. Most people go about the wrong way when they add moisture to their hair.

This post is focused on moisturizing hair when it isn’t in protective style but running wild and free.

Try this the next time you’re moisturizing:


  1.  Section, section, and section: Dividing your hair into smaller sections is key. Moisturizing hair in smaller sections gets more moisture to the strands than doing so in bigger sections. You could section it into 4 parts or more.
  2. Take down each section, one at a time, and apply the conditioner from root to tip, concentrating on the ends.
  3. Please don’t be stingy with the conditioner, be generous and distribute it evenly by combing hair after applying.
  4. Now it’s time to seal in all that moisture, to prevent the moisture from evaporating from the hair shaft. Use your preferred oil or butter to seal in.
Tip: You could put the conditioner in a spray bottle mixed with a little water, for easier application.

Natural Hair Tip #19

PROTEIN CONDITIONING


Doing a protein treatment to your hair? Protein conditioning makes the hair harder and is usually accompanied by deep conditioning to soften hair.  Usually, protein conditioner is added to hair,  hair is put under a shower cap for some minutes, then rinsed out before a deep conditioner is added to conclude the process.

To spend less time doing both, just mix the protein conditioner with the deep conditioner and apply at once!

How To Wash Natural Hair In Less Than An Hour


Warning: 😆In this post, the time accounted for is when one's hand is occupied with their hair. Time utilized for deep conditioning under a shower top isn't included(that takes at least 30 minutes, that is already more than half the time used for a shorter washday). Assumptions are that your hair has been detangled and is now in twists. Twists are usually 6 - 8, not more than that. Additionally, time spent washing hair may rely upon how filthy one's hair is.

As with most naturals, washday ain’t something I anticipate. I’m yet to meet a naturalista that’s always anticipating a washday.  😓 I dread it every time. From detangling, putting hair in sizable twists,  to shampooing and deep conditioning. Tedious!

I'm generally open to new thoughts on the most proficient method to make my washday shorter and voila!  A few months back I was washing my hair when I thought to myself: Instead of washing and rinsing each twist twice, why not shampoo the whole hair first, then do a second washing to each twist to save time?

Now, let me just let you know how my ancient washday went down:
  1.  I take one twist, apply shampoo, scrub and rinse it out.
  2. Apply a second round of shampoo, scrub and rinse out again.
  3. Then take the next twist and repeat step 1 & 2. So if I had 8 twists, I would have shampooed 16 times and rinsed 16 times!
  4. Then apply a deep conditioner to each twist by unraveling it, combing through and retwisting it.
  5. At least 30 minutes under a shower cap to let the deep conditioner do its work.
  6.  Rinse hair.
I'm not sure of the time spent in this method but I'm guessing 1 hour+ - 2 hours.

Now, to my latest tweaked method:
  1. Apply shampoo all over my hair, lightly scrub to remove most of the dirt and rinse out - 5 minutes.
  2. Take each twist, apply a second round of shampoo and scrub. - 10 minutes
  3. At this point, I don’t rinse out until I’m done shampooing and scrubbing all the sections of my hair.
  4. Rinse out shampoo from all the twists at once. - 5 minutes. So if I had 8 twists, I would have shampooed 9 times and rinsed out just twice! Amazeballs!
  5. Then apply a deep conditioner to each twist by unraveling it, combing through and retwisting it - 25 minutes.
  6. At least 30 minutes under a shower cap to let the deep conditioner do its work.
  7. Rinse hair - 10 minutes
The difference in time-saving is so clear! Not only is my time saved but also energy expended.

Hope you try this on your next washday. It may not be less than an hour but it will definitely save you some time. Also if you have a tip for making washday shorter, holla in the comment section.

Keep ‘fro-ing

Currently Rocking #6


I've been looking for ways to jazz up my twist out for a while now. Twist out has been a go-to hairstyle like forever and to be honest it does get quite boring. I finally stumbled on a tutorial on how to accessorize my twist out, Yippee!

I’ll be recreating this style in this post but first off, I’ve been thinking about what to call this hairstyle: 
1. Twist out with a dash of bling?
2. Twist out with some bling bling(No? Too cheesy?)
You can give me some ideas about what to call this hairstyle in the comment section.

Now the recreation:
  • 1. As usual, hair should be clean and well detangled.
  • 2. Section a small part of your hair, this is where the clips(blings) will be attached. Usually, I just do a side part, then further divide it in two.

  • 3. Take one of the section and make box cuts, you can do as much as you like, I just kept mine on the minimal though.

  • 4. Take one section of the hair in box cut and hold with a small rubber band.

  •  5. Twist, join it to the next section and secure with a band.

  • 6. Divide it in two and drag it to have a firmer hold.

  • 7. Do this for all the box cuts

  • 8. Add the clips

  • 9. Twist the rest of your hair

  • 10. Wake up the next day, unravel twists, fluff and go!
Day 1
Day 6

Don't forget to share your ideas about names for this hairstyle!

How To Wash-And-Go On 4c Hair

Curls, Curls...more curls
Wash-and-Go is one of the cool ways to get extra curl definition on your natural hair. This is my second attempt at a wash-and-go, the first attempt was over 2 years ago(Epic failure). It came out right this time. I’m wondering if I should call this a wash-and-go though, maybe a define-and-go has a better ring to it, as my curls didn’t get defined immediately after my wash process. My hair was already a week old after washday.
Wash-and-Gos are mostly achieved during wash days, immediately hair has been cleansed and is free from build up. Mine, however, was achieved a week after washday.

What you’ll need:

  1. Water in a spray bottle
  2. Leave in conditioner
  3. Detangling comb/brush
  4. Gel

Steps

  1. Section a small part of your hair and thoroughly dampen the section with water.
  2. Apply leave-in conditioner, smooth it through and detangle your hair.
  3. Apply gel and smoothen through in a raking motion.
  4. Shingling: Take each individual curl in the section and smoothening it down to separate it from the rest of the section. i.e separating the curls strand by strand.
  5. Do this for your whole hair, then gently shake your head for a while(like you’re saying ‘no’). This helps to separate the coils and to remove excess water.
  6. Style your hair in the direction that you want it to go and let it dry. 
  7. You can add some oil after it dries.

It took about 2.30 hours to get this done because of the shingling, the good thing here is that it wasn’t my arm doing all the work. A friend of mine actually got this done on my hair. 😆


Tips

  1. This style is best achieved on hair that is cleansed, without any build up. It will last longer this way.
  2. Get ready to keep your hair wet throughout the entire process. This allows you to capture the curls you have in your wet state. Water and conditioner bring out your curl pattern, and the gel captures your curl pattern.
  3. Don’t add too much gel, I did this and my hair didn’t completely get dried until the next day. I also had a few white flakes on my hair. Don’t be like me.

Maintenance

Mornings:

  • For the first 5 days: Added oil, lightly rake my hands through my hair, shake and go.
  • On the 6th day, I finally spritz with water, applied oil then little gel and let it dry 

Night:

  • Pineapple up.
  • If I want a stretched hair, I twist more than half of each section, then secure with rubber bands



I’ve been loving the wash-and-go. Apart from being time-consuming, getting matted after a few days,  and as usual the shrinkage, it falls under my fave hairstyles.

Looking forward to trying it again!

Frospiration! | Esther


Let’s get to know you.

Hello peeps! My name is Esther Konama Yeboah. I’m Ghanaian and half English. I’ve lived in Ghana for past 14 years!

How long have you been a natural?

My whole life. Two years ago I went to sisterlocks and half a year ago, I moved to twist locks. I do these myself and don't need to go to a stylist for these.

Do you have an idea what your hair type and porosity is?

Uhmmmm…..no I don’t. Thinking of reading this post on porosity though, so I’ll figure it out, but my hair is difficult and hard work.


What’s your regimen like?

I wash my hair 2 or 3 times every 6 weeks with some form of moisturizing shampoo, whatever I have with me at the time. Every time I wash it, I oil my scalp and roots with coconut oil and Shea butter. Then I re-twist each lock (not sure how many I have) with Cantu moisturizing twist and lock gel and Olive oil Eco styler gel. A couple of times during the month I re-oil my hair a bit and re-twist some in the front rows.

Any hair products you can’t do without?

Cantu twist and lock gel, Coconut oil and Shea butter.

What’s your go-to hairstyle? Any fave hairstyle?

I normally leave my hair loose (I’ve been told it makes me look like a lion with a mane) or tie it high up in a bun.

Challenges you face as a natural.

I did when it wasn’t in locks. I had a fluffy afro before now, and although it was cool, no one took someone with a fluff ball on their head seriously. I couldn’t really do much with it because it was a lot to deal with, all tangly and I was too self-conscious to leave it out, so it remained tied up most of the time. It needed a lot of care to keep it looking normal and healthy but it was always tangled up because people kept touching it as if I were a cat. 😒

Do you have any hair/styling secret? 😉

Secrets? Hmmmm….I switch hair partings throughout the day to stop my hair from hanging too floppy, staying fluffed and wind swept-looking.

What’s the best thing about being natural?

The best thing about being natural is: when you look good, especially when everyone acknowledges it. Then you feel the effort you put in wasn’t in vain! The best thing about locks is: you put almost zero effort into looking good!

Any advice for your natural sisters out there?

Be proud of the hair you’ve been given; it’s a gift. But don’t be mistaken in thinking that you need to have long hair or perfect natural hair and so you labor hard and long on it to no avail. If your hair is hard work, there are other ways to embrace it. There’s no one way to be natural.

How do we keep in touch with you? 

Instagram: @essy_ter

Currently Rocking!

Jumbo Faux Locs

jumbo faux locs

Washday | Secret Of Less Tangling



 My definition of washday these days:


washday
/ˈwɒʃdeɪ/
noun
noun: wash-day
   - a day when one misses their big chop or teeny weeny afro 
I really do miss the times when washdays were easier. These days it comes with lots of manipulation, that leaves my hair in a tangled mess, especially as my hair grows longer and thicker.
For a while now, I’ve been making washdays less of a chore, making it easier by washing my hair in braids/twists. There are more benefits to this:

  1.  I spend less time during the washing process.
  2. This also helps minimize tangles caused by manipulation, giving me a better chance of retaining length.
  3.  It ensures my hair is getting cleaned thoroughly as no part is being ignored. 
Depending on the length and thickness of your hair, You can braid/twist up 4 or more sections. Usually, I do 6 or more sections for my hair.

When shampooing, focus on the scalp as this is where dirt and buildup are present. After shampooing, let the water run down the length of your braids/twists to clean the length of your hair.  Squeeze each braid/twist as the shampoo is being rinsed out of your hair.

You don’t have to unravel the braids/twists after the shampoo rinse out, You can also go through your deep conditioning process while the hair is still braided/twisted up.

Tip: To prevent my hair from unraveling during the wash process, I make sure braids/twists are firm but not excessively tight.

How do you combat tangles on washdays? Let me know in the comment section below.

Frospiration! | Sotie

Let’s get to know you.

Hi Hi! My name is Ibim-Dennis Sotonye (Sotie). I'm Nigerian and I currently live in Poland. I am a Medical student.


How long have you been natural?

It'll be exactly 2 years by this May 2018.

Big chop or transition?

I transitioned for 9 months and I finally chopped it off in May 2016.


What’s the story behind you going back to your natural roots?

Well, I went through a phase when the harsh winter weather and too much heat destroyed my healthy relaxed hair. It was badly damaged and just didn’t look good anymore. As a child, I was natural until I was 9 and I remember my hair been very long and healthy, so I started thinking of going natural. Although I went through 2 failed transitions before I could fully commit to the journey, I finally did it! No regrets yet.

Do you have an idea what your hair type and porosity is?

My hair type is 4C, Porosity-I have no idea.

What’s your regimen like?

Lol “Regimen” well I’m a lazy and busy natural so my hair is in protective styles most of the time. I wear wigs most of the time and try to wash  once a week( no longer than 2 weeks without a wash)

  • I pre-poo with a basic conditioner and coconut oil for an hour or more, sometimes overnight. Then detangle and section into 4 parts.
  • Then I wash with shampoo ( Yves Rocher for bouncy curls or Aussie miracle moist) these are the ones I can easily pick up from the store and they are super affordable. 
  • I condition with the Yves Rocher bouncy curls conditioner, rinse that out.
  • Afterwards with the Aussie miracle moist conditioner, I deep condition with a plastic bag or shower cap over my head for at least 1 hour. (this is done every other week).
  • Then I rinse with green tea, Condition with Cantu leave-in conditioner and finally, I seal the moisture in with my DIY shea butter, coconut oil, and almond oil mix. 

 All of this is just on wash day.  On a daily basis, I just spray my hair which is usually in cornrows with water and seal with coconut oil at night and tie my hair with a silk scarf.

Any hair products you can’t do without?

Cantu leave-in conditioner or any similar product. It makes detangling a lot easier.

What’s your go-to hairstyle? Any fave hairstyle?

I love to put my hair in a high puff when its out. its quick, easy and looks good.

Challenges you face as a natural.

The routine and finding the time to keep up with it is a real challenge.


Do you have any hair/styling secret? *wink*

My hair loves water so I try to keep it moisturized all the time.

Has going natural changed anything about you?

Going natural has taught me how to better care of my hair. I don’t use heat at all anymore and I’m more gentle with hair in general since I make other people’s hair part-time.  I’m  also much more confident when my hair is out and it's looking healthy and beautiful.

Do you think you’ll ever return back to the creamy crack?

 Well, yeah. I think I will eventually, but I might miss my curls and come right back. 😂


Any advice for your natural sisters out there?

The sacrifice is worth it. Don’t break your pockets in a bid to buy expensive hair products. A simple regular regimen will do the same thing. If you can’t find the popular ones Youtube hair gurus keep talking about then get what is available or affordable and make it work.


How do we keep in touch with you?

Instagram handle @sotie_ibim
Twitter handle @iam_sotie

Hair Progress


Length Check


This is one, really, overdue post.

The last time I did a length check was more than a year ago. At long last! I did one at some point last month.
For a while now, I've been a wee bit skeptical to do a length check and it's mainly because I don't want to face the disappointment of my hair not growing as it should.

I haven’t had as much growth compared to my last length check(oh, then I had above 3 inches of growth within 5 months) as a result of being stressed and much breakage(that’s a gist for another post) but I slightly got above 2 inches of hair progress. 😁

Oh, and I’ve tweaked my regimen a bit:
  • I skip the use of rinse out conditioners after shampooing, it makes my wash day shorter and having a well detangled pre-pooed hair just makes this step easier to skip.
  •  Sealing my hair with coconut oil mixed with shea butter to make a better sealant and give more shine.
  • Trimming more frequently than twice a year now.

Also, you can check out my current hair products.

Don't forget to build a regimen and use products that works best for your hair!

Natural Hair Tip #18

Single Strand Knots


Having single strand knots(little knots that forms along the hair strands, especially close to the end of the strand) drama???
Here are some tips to live by:

  1.  Make sure hair is properly detangled, starting from the end to the root.
  2.  Keep the ends of your hair regularly coated with oil or thick butters, as this adds weight to it, preventing it from curling around each other and forming knots.
  3. When braiding/twisting your natural hair, twirl the ends around your fingers, this makes it curly at the end and prevents it from knotting.


Using Okra Gel for Twists-out


Hi Ladies and maybe Gents, My name is Oluwatoyin Yetunde Sanni and you can simply address me as Oluwayetty. I'm a software developer by profession who is deeply in love with her natural hair. I went natural about 5 years ago because I wanted healthy hair. During this period, I've tried the TWA, the dreads and had to cut my hair twice because it was growing too wild to be nurtured.

Over time, you'd be reading more from me about my adventures with my hair of course 😉. Today, I would like to talk about how I used Okra gel to achieve a super soft defined twists out on my 4C hair.

What is Okro? Better not to assume everyone knows that.

Okra or Okro known in many English-speaking countries as ladies' fingers or ochro, is a flowering plant in the mallow family. It is valued for its edible green seed pods. The geographical origin of okra is disputed, with supporters of West African, Ethiopian, and South Asian origins.

Why Okra for the hair?

  1. It is 100% natural with no chemicals.
  2. It is less expensive, the picture above is about one-quarter of a dollar.
  3. Okra’s also high in Vitamins A & C, folic acid, calcium, zinc, including biotin, all of which make it incredibly nourishing for the hair.
  4. Protein and oil found in the seeds of okra are enriched with amino acids with the likes of tryptophan, cystine and other sulfur amino acids which is really great to give dry or damaged hair some strength. 

Okra gel Preparation

  1. Cut 3-10 pieces of okra vertically.
  2. Boil the okra until frothy and slimy.
  3. Strain the mixture into a container.
  4. You can add lemon or oils if you like(I added just extra virgin olive oil and Vitamin E to make it last longer). This was what mine looked like after the preparation. I allowed it to cool(kept it in the fridge) before using it on my hair.

There are actually different ways the Okra gel can be used; Some use it as a final step conditioner after a wash day, some use it as a detangler, some use it to simply lay their edges for styling purposes, some also use it as a wash and go and some use it for a twist-out which was my case.

Using Okro gel for leave-in

I started out on a freshly washed hair, that I sectioned as you can see in the picture below. Because my hair was a bit dry as I left it in sections and slept immediately I finished washing, I mixed some water, castor oil, almond oil and tea tree oil in a spritz bottle. I call this mix the "Yetty's Hair Therapy". 
Forgive this poor picture, still learning the art of Hair Photography
I went further to spritz each section of my hair with Yetty's therapy in order to make my hair slightly damp. I then began sectioning it into smaller portions, applied the gel(it is really slimy, I'd advise you get the kind of bottle I used to store mine, to avoid getting all of the environment messy). In each smaller portions, I applied my okra gel while carefully detangling by strands running my fingers from the tips of my hair to the root. Gosh, it was the best feeling ever and the most stress-free detangling method. I also have to say I have not been using any comb on my hair for about 3 months now and I only used my fingers and the super detangling ingredients from my okra gel. 

After properly detangling, using few drops of the Okra gel and my fingers, I added my homemade whipped shea butter to each portion starting also from the tips to the root. I added the shea butter to seal in all the goodness that comes with the Okra gel, we don't want it to waste, do we? The shea butter also added some shine to my hair. The next thing I did after the application of my shea butter was twist my hair all the way to the tips while making sure my ends were well moisturized with another little addition of the shea butter to the tips. 

I had my hair in twists using the above steps and I had very minimal breakage like never before. 
                    
Back view
Front view + dripping ends (Tired face)
I left the twists on for about two days while I spritz my hair once a day. On the day I was set to let out the hair, I first added a few drops of anti-frizz argan oil to the tips of my fingers while I gently separate my twists. 


Few things I noticed while I do this:

  • My hair was still moisturized even after two days, thanks to the spritz I applied every day before I unraveled it.
  • There were no flakes of any sort. My hair was completely flake-less if there's a word like that.
  • The twists were easy to unravel and separated to further smaller sections to have a full hair. There were no tangles at my ends which is a first-time experience for me.
I made sure the anti-frizz argan oil was always on my tips every time I detangle. After separating it to the level I felt satisfied with, I used an afro wide-tooth comb to lift my roots to have a fuller look with the twists-out and here we go:

        
I wore this look for about 3 days and here's my review of the Okra gel:

PROS

  • My hair was still soft and moisturized all of the days I wore my twists-out.
  • Detangling with NO COMBS has never been that easier.
  • My curls were still very much defined even as the hair grows old. That is something I haven't seen happen to my hair in a long while with other products I've tried.
  • There were still no flakes after 3 days.


CONS

  • It doesn't have much hold; I think I wasn't really surprised with this since the hair was really moisturized and soft. I can live with hair that's not so crunchy.
  • The slimy nature can really piss one off especially if you're not careful with how you handle the movement of bringing it out of the bottle to applying it to your hair. 

I did really love the Okra gel as a detangler and styling product for my twists-out. I can live with the CONS, they ain't much of a big deal to me. I will definitely give this many tries since my hair seems to love it.

Have you ever tried Okra gel before? How was your experience? Good, Bad or Ugly? Do you want to give it a try? I'll be waiting to hear from you in the comment section. Until we FRO again, See ya!